A Garden vs. Not A Real Jungle

This is actually a schedule post. I compose this immediately after I update the previous writing. 

They find me out that day and I decide to go around "san san xin" with them though their purpose is to do exercise. They bring me to Taman Seribu Bunga located at Ayer Keroh. It is a nice place seriously.. I am very lazy to adjust for the brightness > <

Happy? This will be one of the nice moments left after all of us separate but I hope we can still gather together after graduating or studying at society university. TreeTan is always the one who comes at the right time, it seems like he can sense I am emo-ing lol. Everyone has his/her problem, I believe yours can be like mine one day. The day will come =O

This back side look not bad what! Let me do some lighting adjustment and give you to have it as profile picture :) Who wants to shoot me? I want to have a nice profile picture too. Have been waiting for so long..

A scenery that looks quite like a palace view.

Peace! The rest of two why no peace? Three of you look so happy! Let me tell you, 大家都是你看我好我看你好…… Understand? Trust me. This sentence is not only applicable to them, but to everyone. Try to think and understand about it.

Because quite late already the moment we reach there, some more now is still fasting month so there's some changes with the visit time. Not long later there the guard comes to call us to leave as soon as possible. I wonder how he knows we are there as the place isn't small. CCTV? I don't see any CCTV there.

The naive look. Can we be as naive as this most of the time? That's impossible because human just likes to find trouble and or something to vex and even if you don't, the obstacles will still come to you one day. He just want to test us, we need to have some blocks in order to grow. Don't you? One's life can never always be a bed of roses.

 

One of the fountains having over there. It looks so peaceful.

We go Hutan Rekreasi the next station. They go there to have more exercises and might as well look for the camping place.

Is it really a nice place to have camp? I don't have much comments because I don't have any camping experience. I never been to camp seriously nor taking up the post as a committee to prepare for such kind of event. Actually got lar but just once. It was a short leadership camp staying at my school during my secondary school life. Miserable as I didn't sleep well and also because I don't like the post I held.

This is quite high actually, standing at the top of a small "cave". Anyway, not a bad potrait! =）

Good good Jason! He is indeed a wushu kia. What will be the scene if a wushu-ian fights with a taekwondo-ian?

The foots look very small here! This is the fact, not angle problem. There are plenty of gymnastic tools there but what I can say is half of them are spoilt lol. Be cautious while using it!

Not taking much photos. Just don't feel like having much. For the first reason, I think people will be bored of seeing my face. As for second, I scare people want to attack me secretly lol I don't have any wushu taekwondo magic basic.

We visit Thing who is working! Surprise! Luckily manager isn't there, otherwise, I will get scold by him/her for I capture photo. By the way, why no "no photo" board?

No photo! No webcam! No printscreen! :)

-_________- Boy you too much calcium xD Should give me some ;P Bye! Kidding! Don't chop me :D

Smurf & the Vacancy

I really go to try the Get Your Smurf Nickname suggested by Jillian. Because you know, I am kinda curious type person lol so ya sh** that's why last week, I got fooled by Facebook virus PADAN MUKA -_____-zzz


AND YOU KNOW WHAT?!!!! Surprisingly coincidently fate-ly I got the SAME smurf name as my love whoottssss..! ^^

Cloud 9. Hhhahaha ❤ Ok both of us are splendiferous 锦绣 ^^ Why? Aren't we? You care?! Bluek ;P


Ok before I forget, I actually promised friend to ask for her in my blog if anyone would like to take up the vacancy. It was 20days ago! First time first time, so sorry!

There's a newly opened shop named Q Bean at Melaka Raya (new branch, main stall is opposite of Beauty Range Boutique 俪人服装店). They require waiter & waitress. Those who are interested, kindly contact Lay Yuh Jau @ 012-6383379.

Apart from this, there's also another vacancies at Calanthe Cafe full time & part time waiter/waitress. Interested? Contact Mr.Joseph Chia or Mr.Daniel Lim. It is a really nice place to recommend if you would like to stay there to have a cup of coffee. Their 13 States Coffees are famous! Try try, at Jonker Street.

I feel quite vex here for my PTPTN problem. If I would want to complain, this essay can have up to 1,000 words. I wish so much they can solve the problem they arose very very soon, please! Do your job for the reason you receive your employment income from government.

The world is realistic I can say. That's the truth, you don't have to argue and there's no point to do so. Only pretty girls & boys can be famous (Give me example of famous blogger who do not have pretty face if you are able), only tall girl can be model & only rich human have the right to speak and we are the one have to see the "colour face" +.+ I might be shot if anyone of them see this. No offence lahhhhhh just purely my thinking.

Josheen Ma

Aud & Cheesie

Pretty.

Stop here first lar then. Next is about "jungle" hunting! ;）

Omg he almost reaches my waist!

烦恼与婚姻

虽知，他要我成长。但，我仍皱起眉头，懊恼。

我寻觅，它说：“如果你不给自己烦恼，别人也永远不可能给你烦恼。”

它还说：“别人永远是对的，我永远错，这样子比较没烦恼。”


我该牢记着这点。这次错固不在于我，可也非完全无误。


是，我错，因我没提早检查；是，我错，因我把它关了。




我很喜欢一本情人赠的礼物 ：《幸福就是 —— 老天给什么，都是享受》，黄桐著。里头有一则故事，间接描述这道理。


        五星级饭店中，一个顾客把经理叫到房间，非常生气地抱怨房客的电器都坏了，甚至连不堪入耳的脏话都脱口而出。


        饭店经理一看，原来他根本没有把感应卡插进门旁的凹槽，难怪电器都不能使用。这名粗鲁的客人，让经理心中十分生气，但他仍保持着微笑，说：“您说得很有道理。我们饭店的人这项设计实在太差了，很多客人都为此十分困扰。我也跟上级反应过很多次，希望他们能改进。让我替您插入感应卡，这样就可以使用了。”


        虽然只是短短几句话，但这位经理却用了许多谈话技巧：他首先自责「这样的设计的确很糟」，表示认同客人的怒气、承认自己的错误；接着他说「很多人都抱怨不会使用」，来化解对方的尴尬……


        结果，刚才还炮火四射的客人不但怒气全消，还主动向经理道歉，成功化解了一场不愉快。



我需保持心平气和、谦卑，希望对方能很快地解决我的问题，感激不尽。

今天有位贤妻良母型的人，与我分享了一篇短文。

       “婚礼” 只是一刹那的事。牧师说：“爱上帝的男人，一定爱妻子，并且忠于妻子。爱妻子的男人，未必爱上帝。一个不爱上帝的男人，他就不怕也不会遵守上帝的戒命。他随时可以背叛、不忠、抛弃妻子。”


       《圣经》说：“丈夫当用合宜之分待妻子，妻子待丈夫也要如此。你们各人都当爱妻子，如同爱自己一样。妻子也敬重她的丈夫。做丈夫的，要爱你们的妻子，不可苦待她们。要按情理和妻子同住，因她比你软弱，与你一同承受生命之恩的，所以要尊重她。妻子没有权柄主张自己的身子，乃在丈夫；丈夫也没有权柄主张自己的身子，乃在妻子。当新人交换誓言时，是不是也从此预备好，约束好自己，相信彼此都能（妻子没有权柄主张自己的身子，乃在丈夫；丈夫也没有权柄主张自己的身子，乃在妻子。）。这「自己的身子」包括「身心灵」都彼此忠心敬重。”



很不错的一个分享，这是来自于「歌林多前书 7:4」。后来我继续搜索佛经上的注解，发现了星云大师谈的夫妻之道。


        感情的交流，以公理正义为原则；语言的沟通，以体谅包容为雅量；人我的相处，以不违情理为自然；金钱的运用，以量入量出为正常。


　　夫妻之间应该怎样相处？夫妇之道有三等，即上等、中等、下等。



        上等的丈夫，回家帮助太太料理家务。上等的丈夫会想到太太忙于工作，还要忙于家务，必定辛苦，下班回到家里，他会体恤太太的辛劳，协助太太操持家事。这样的丈夫，必定是上等的好丈夫。
　　中等的丈夫，回家喝茶看报，赞美太太。不会帮忙做家事的丈夫，回到家里，虽然喝茶看报纸，至少嘴巴还会赞美太太，感谢太太的付出。如此，太太再怎么辛苦，也能甘之如饴。
　　下等的丈夫，回家气势凌人，嫌东嫌西。最下等的丈夫，回到家里，就是一副自己最辛苦、自以为对家庭付出最多的姿态。要么嫌太太菜煮得不好，要么嫌太太不会打扮，看不顺眼，东嫌西嫌，气势凌人，这是最下等的丈夫。


　　上等的太太，治家整洁，贤惠有礼。俗语说："家有良妻，如国有良相。"一位贤良妻子能开源节流，将家打理得妥当，维护环境整洁，态度温敬柔软，周到体贴，行仪慈孝和顺，让先生无后顾之忧。
　　中等的太太，慰问、赞美丈夫的辛劳。莎士比亚说："一个好妻子，除了处理家务外，还兼有慈母、良伴、恋人三种身份。"所以，治家能力差一点的太太，至少要能多说好话，要常常慰问、赞美丈夫的辛劳与付出。
　　下等的太太，唠叨不休，刻薄自私。下等的太太，不但不善于治家，丈夫辛苦一天回到家时她还会喋喋不休，要么嫌弃他的职业赚钱太少，要么埋怨住得不好、穿得不暖，如此只会让丈夫觉得家如监狱。


        很多失败的婚姻都是因为不能谅解对方的辛劳，不能体会对方的付出。所以，夫妇之道从互相欣赏、互相体谅开始，遇到困难险阻时能互助斩荆、共离困境，婚姻才能美满。

提早祝福一位快要结婚的朋友，新婚快乐！

如果你即将要结婚，切记 ：“你一定要忍耐包容对方的缺点，世界上没有绝对幸福爱猫扑爱生活的婚姻，幸福只是来自于无限的容忍与互相尊重。”

Cute's 1-Year-Old Party!

I was walking alone, heading to my class then somebody pulled me inside to support the campaign. Oh so yeap, my picture ↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓ The hat isn't mine > <

hhahahah like it? Not forcing anyway, vote yea if you like ^^ 2 steps will do!

Step 1 : Like this http://www.facebook.com/pages/Mahkota-Parade/10150129179195323

and then

Step 2 : Here http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10150766999200323&set=a.10150766995985323.716578.10150129179195323&type=1&theater

Weeeeee of course I still hope you can click "like" lah hhahah ;D 

Let's proceed to the birthday party night of my little cute cousin. 1 years old at last! ^_^

Ohman boy, your shoes is more expensive than mine @@

This is his "geram" look! Lol..

Handsome boy! His cousin, another cousin of mine too..

I don't even have sunglasses for myself  > <  Super cool yo kid, one of his presents! 

Aunt is pretty =D This is my most favourite photo of the day~

The second picture I like the most after the most favourite one..!

Uniform weh ;D

Happy family yea? I want to have this kinda picture for myself too le.

Ahhem* Helo dear? I am hinting you hhhahah..

Relaxx. No stress.

回头一眸？Is she and me look alike?

Apart from young children, there were senior citizen too.

Busy gossiping or concerning? Anything, kai xin jiu hao :D

Ini dua orang apa pasal sama expression. Eat eat eat xD

They haven't ready yet! The woman was pulling another son of her to come in screen ;P

You know, I like this kind of photo sometimes. It looks more natural what don't you think so? :)

Lol. What? Long time no seeeeee Mr.Poong. Nice to see you again on that party :D

Yellow set. I support Digi mah ;P Yellow was my favourite colour when I was still small.

I don't have any favourite colour for now, but I think I slightly prefer white more than others.

It depends on what's the stuff actually.

Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to youuu~

I told you he likes birthday song. I told you. I told you I told you -___- This is what I can always hear in my Taxation lecture.

Yea, his face tells everything.

Fuhhhh.. Tak sabar-sabar wanted to touch the cake > <

Finish! I didn't take much photos that day like up to 1,000 pictures @@ Thanks my love, for the thingys and your trust. Choppppp stamp a mouth shape on your cheek ^^

The next day? Meaning that it's the time to open the presents!!!!! Aha..

Kai wan xiao. He received further much more many presents than I received on my birth date lol.

Cutie, nanti dulu... Mama opened for you okie?

This is so cute haha. See the tail :) ;) =) :D ;D =D :P ;P =P

Tiger or cow? Muuuuu you belong to tiger boy but you wear cow attire duh?

LA FIN~

*Need to do homework lio > <*

Datuk Lee

! Being fool by the Facebook virus. If anyone of you receives my message either in chatbox form or message form, and the first conversation is a "hi", just close it. I 100% confirm guarantee definitely absolutely would not start with a "hi" if I want to approach you. So, understand?!

CAN YOU PLEASE BE INITIATIVE TO CONTACT THE RELEVANT PARTY? IT HAS BEEN ALMOST A MONTH AND I DON'T THINK YOU NEED SUCH LONG TIME TO FIX MY PROBLEM. TO ADD ON, THIS IS OBVIOUSLY YOUR FAULT AND YOU CHARGE ME FOR A LUMP SUM OF FEES, SO DON'T YOU THINK THIS IS YOUR RESPONSIBLE TO WORK ON THE MISTAKE AS SOON AS POSSIBLE? DAMN FED UP.

Kinda sad to look at this picture. The tears in his eyes...

Normally I would not have interest on watching his match but last week, I don't know why I just turned on my square television and waited for his match with Lin Dan. I am so grateful that I watched and I think it just worth my time so well though he has been defeated. Undeniable, I see the improvement on his techniques and I do seriously hope he can make us proud in the coming 2012 London Olympic.

I started to salute him. Personally I think he deserves the name "Datuk" addressed to him. For those who have comments on this matter, HELLO GUYS YOU JUST TRY TO PLAY AND LET'S SEE CAN YOU MAKE IT TO THE INTERNATIONAL LEVEL? Cannot? Just shut your mouth up.

Too rude in this post hhahhaha lol > < Jiayou our hero Datuk Lee! Okay that's all bye see me again.