Tuesday, October 4, 2016

Me Before You, Me After You


能不能给我一首歌的时间,再次为你写上一小段周年作品。

翻回所有写给你的文章,我真的无法想象我每年在这时候向你表白的精力是哪来的。或许,那是你的爱成就了这份坚持。

1st Anniversary : It Will Go On and On
2nd Anniversary : Another Mark of Us
3rd Anniversary : Do I Like You?
4th Anniversary : The Days with Dave
5th Anniversary : Still, As Always

爱情沒有时间的长短,不是因为认识得夠久,就一定会很相爱;而是你懂我的每一个动作、每一个情绪,我们可以互相成长,可以是朋友、情人,更可以是相依偎但无血緣关系的家人。我曾说过那样的一句话,“人生的道路不能一帆风顺,爱的路程也有风雨”。摩擦确实会伤了彼此的感情,但同时也让我们能对彼此有更深地了解,从而去接纳对方的不足,协助对方改善不正确的习惯。

Problems and challenges in life can be like the wind, which blows unpredictably. We can’t control the wind, but we can learn to set our sails and to make repairs. Life, with all its ups and downs, has taught us a few lessons about building a more lasting romance.
P/S:去到哪儿都是公事,拍拖旅行机不离手,可以不要那么工作狂吗?电话响不停,拜托,除了你家人,你是我的好吗?干嘛大家非要一直冲着你来跟我争😕😝

茫茫人世之中,相遇,本就是极奇妙的事。在某时某地遇见谁,根本不是你我可以掌握。遇见你,可说是很重要的转折点。除了是与你的真实相会,也是带给我们截然不同的生命观点,改变对方之于生命的想法。遇见你之前,因着某种不信任感作祟,我沒有信心与他人交心。所以好久以前,我都会避开人潮,深怕一个不小心遇到认识的人,不晓得该说什么,尷尬的我只能逃离现场。😣
遇见你之后,你用真诚的心丰富我。生命的截然不同,可能不是当下即刻的转变,但你让我愿意踏出那一步,等到数月甚至或许是数年后反观自我,深觉从原先的模樣,转变成另一个更理想的自我。对我來说,也就是你这么一个人,让我成为现在更好的我。😊

Throughout our 6 years together, there were days when we didn't even like each other. What we noticed was that every time we let a gap come between us, it was whenever we let our pride come in the way, we thought we deserved better, and we chose to be right rather than be kind. Love is realising everybody is different and unique with their own perks and qwerks. Love is understanding that everyone makes mistakes. Love is a choice. A choice to not give up on one another. Our love change the day we took up the daily habit of asking each other if there's anything we could do for each other. Love doesn't demand but give. Like a boomerang, it comes back to you. 
P/S:爱小孩的你,在你每一次跟孩子们嬉戏的时候,让我忍不住偷偷想想以后你和咱们孩子之间的互动,嘴角不禁上扬。再来看见罕见下厨的你,就算原本心里有气都会瞬间消了。😳

 Happy 6 years anniversary, my dearest. I love you to the moon and back 😘