Sunday, March 21, 2010

别再哭了


hey sorry, chinese again this time..  what i want say are some quite straight this time so please forgive. i hope you guys do read it.. though i'm not a good advisor, but i've really tried my very best to console those who need me.

i feel to punch them sometimes for their stubborn.. arghxz! haha.. hmm now only i know how my friends felt last time when i did the same thing to them. thank you so much for waking me up. i feel so happy because i had stood up!! you will only understand what do i mean when you've tried and you succeed.

as friends, we feel the same way as what you do. you are sad because your relationship failed, we are sad because our friend is unhappy but we couldn't do anything to cheer her/him. do you know what is the feeling of helpless? terrible right? if you don't wish us to have that feeling so the only thing you can do is to give up, stand up and cheer up! you are born to give happiness to people but not making yourself or the people around you to suffer!


爱有很多种:

有一种爱,叫做寂寞。寂寞,是因为一个人为爱走的路。

有一种爱,叫做甜蜜。甜蜜,是因为爱是酝酿甜蜜的花朵。

有一种爱,叫做伤心。伤心,是因为我再也找不到那些爱过的曾经。

有一种爱,叫做凄苦。凄苦,是因为爱的路上,总会遇到猛烈的暴风雨。

有一种爱,叫做喜悦。喜悦,是因为相爱在一起的简单的幸福。

有一种爱,叫做微笑。微笑,是因为爱像成熟了的挂上枝头的开心果。

有一种爱,叫做坦白。坦白,是因为爱的存在,每个人的心里都能够明白。

有一种爱,叫做依赖。依赖,是因为可以依偎的心,不再害怕孤单的伤害。

有一种爱,叫做思念。思念,是因为离别即使短暂,也会让爱在心里无尽的蔓延。

有一种爱,叫做无奈。无奈,是因为已经为爱承受得太多,只能用无奈来稍微释怀

有一种爱,叫做放弃。放弃,只因为这一句“我会学着放弃你,是因为我太爱你”。

有一种爱,叫做迷糊。迷糊,是因为看不清楚爱该走的路

有一种爱,叫做辛苦。辛苦,是因为喜欢爱的一起吃苦的幸福。

有一种爱,叫做曲折。曲折,是因为爱总要转几个弯才到来。

有一种爱,叫做后悔。后悔是因为等爱走了以后,才明白,原来自己真的爱过。

有一种爱,叫做感动。感动,是因为爱会在寒冷的冬天,脱下棉衣,送你一度的温暖。

有一种爱,叫做心碎。心碎,是因为爱,被冻结在寒冷的季节。

有一种爱,叫做刻骨。刻骨,是因为爱的痕迹,像锁向灵魂的永不腐朽的枷锁。




而你的爱,是属于哪一些?

爱,不一定要拥有,不是吗?试想想这句话的含义..

你已经有了很多爱,为何要那么自私不放走不适合你的爱呢?

爱,是需要宽宏的心的..




我的好朋友说,拍拖是为了要测试对方适不适合你。如果真的爱的话,一开始就结婚了何必要谈恋爱?

我觉得他说得一点也没错。难道,是错的吗?适合,就结婚。不适合,就是分开啊!

没失恋,何来找到真正的幸福?

当有一天你找到了属于你的幸福,你就会发现,原来失恋是让你找另一个更珍惜你的人。

所以你应该感谢放弃、抛弃你的人。





傻孩子,

如果没法忘记他,就不要忘记好了。真正的忘记,是不需要努力的。

傻孩子,

爱情要完结的时候自会完结,到时候,你不想画上句号也不行。

傻孩子,

对方不要你了,你怎么还可以不要自己,迷失自我呢?

傻孩子,

缘起缘灭,缘浓缘淡,不是我们能够控制的。我们能做到的,是在因缘际会的时候好好珍惜那短暂的时光。





我有首歌要跟失恋的朋友分享。曾经我因为朋友的劝导与鼓励,我感到无比欣慰。因为这首歌,我懂了.. 我明白他们说的东西了..

请你们一定看,只花你们最多5分钟的时间..

好好听,好好想歌词所要带出来的东西..

朋友们,一定要加油 =)



伤心情歌播几遍了

你的眼还是红红的

生命总有些过客

现在不过多了一个

结束了何必再拉扯

有些事总该遗忘的

你听着听着又哭了

我明白的谁都难免不舍

别再哭了

多不值得

想一想把爱情看透彻

生活苦涩

该他负责

他会后悔他做了这选择

别再哭了

多不值得

失去也是另一种获得

伤心情歌

不属你的

幸福不一定非爱谁不可

难熬的

会经过的




Saturday, March 20, 2010

FEEL BORED?

feel bored? want to watch movie drama show or video?

hmm i think i've become crazy after spending the whole day facing my homework @.@

haha.. so ar my son comes to disturb by requesting me to have pictures with him xD



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please look at my CUTE son!!!!! hehehe..












Sunday, March 14, 2010

BEER


hmm when i was looking for something, i saw THISSSSSSSSSSSSS in my album.. 




hahaha.. small girl drinks beer? :(  xD xD xD it was during CNY, my aunt's open house.. i am a good girl okay i dont drink beer!!!!!haha.. my uncle laaa... he took for my siblings and asked us to share ╮(╯▽╰)╭ but hor.. the more you consume, the nicer is the beer.. :P

my sister snapped this photo so sudden when i was drinking.. celaka.. haha.. arghxzZ..!

eh people.. do you realise something...?



seeeeeeeeeeeee.......... i'm very cho lo xD

hahahahaha == whatever..


i have many things to say actually.. but am sO LAZY tonight. forgive me..

cheers my friend.. you know who you are.. look around you and feel it sincerely, the world is so beautiful isn't it? :) kah yau :D



Friday, March 5, 2010

HPY BDY MY DEAR O(∩_∩)O


Yeay so it is my beloved Daddy's birthday today!!! happy happy birthday my dear papa :) may your dreams, wishes and resolutions come true.. huat ah!!! ^__^ haha..

my dad has grown older. i will be more "guai" k.. sorry for any inconvenience, trouble or hurt i caused. me and all the family members as well know how much you contribute to this family especially you support us up by your own alone. TQ and i love you my daddy ^__^

i do really hope what you wish comes true.. we sama-sama wait ya =)