What we do the most today are eating! XD Haha~ One of them is tahdang!
Yeap yeap Häagen-Dazs ! My first try =D Ok OK I know I suagu.
We are waiting !! HO ZHI YEE !!! Cantik kan? Say lagi photographer's problem hmph! XD
YES !!!!! Häagen-Dazs fondue is what we order HAHA.. *Wah it must be very expensive! Woooo Lee Pei Kin so rich~* Are you having this thought now? So you want me to slap you? XD I say already this is my 1st try ;O If the answer is yes, then I'm sad because you judge me by the cover -_____- Nor I say I am poor, want me to slap you 2nd time? XD
Why would you think that I am rich if I go for Häagen-Dazs/Baskin Robbins OR I buy Nike shoes OR I buy Giordano clothes? Can't I save my pocket money desperately by eating RM0.50 Hi5 breads everyday? Can't I stay away from variety of temptations to save money all this while and finally get a good stuff for myself? Don't forget I live & eat at home and sometimes I don't spend any single cent in a day seriously! If you really want to compare, then what about the money you spend for yourself daily? Go out to have fun, go cafe to dine, buy many small items, watch movie once few days, clubbing spending, your iphone your DSLR your………………????????????? whatsoever. The accumulated money is equivalent to the money I spend on good stuff once in a blue moon. So we are actually SAME rich or maybe YOU ARE far more richer than me. I know where I am and I am not poor because I don't starve. I eat well sleep well conclusion, live well!
Enough saying XD I offend you? You besong ar? Oh hell ya I touch the point you terasa. Your business you angry hhahahha.. ;P Don't angry kie~ ^ ^ Got vacancies le, go to apply lar they need people! Siapa mau kerja part time or full time as a waiter/waitress at restaurant? A friend of mine is searching. Anyone of you interested please contact me.
Photo of 1 of my best friends in front of the shop! Since we have no one to help us to capture, we actually use the counter table to support my camera so that we can get a joint photo of us then just when I'm changing the setting then an office man passes by, asking if we want him to help us? Gooooooood !! And he asks us if the photo is ok otherwise he can have 2nd take but I just simply review and tell him yes yes can can nice! XD (because my camera screen is small laaaaaaa hard to preview photo) Haha..
Ouh my best friends, I like to have a talk with two of you because you both know my pattern hhahahaha tak payah ler I take care image LOL.....
Obviously which one we are in haha. Lim Yi Shien also! ;D
Holiday ends but my holiday mood haven't leave yet. I don't know why I just want to delay this post Zzz. Okay let's start from morning first then.
My birthday of course none other than going paktoh hhahaha.. Thanks my love.
His camera good but model bad XD I mean the photo model not camera model. Not photogenic lar this > < I think I shall wear spectacles more next time okay he fulfilled my wish again by having a photo with me. He is my super good man =D Yes my man, not boy.
By the time I reached home, I changed clothes, took my bag and then went to attend ground breaking ceremony of Academic of Han Studies. Sorry baby not managed to spend more time with you > < After puas seeing professor hhahaa we went Nadeje!
*Open one eye close one eye* also know which flavour is mine LAH if you follow my blog all this while lol...
With my BS buddy! Yeah president belanja birthday girl sit center XD Tq zhuxi you're very good! Haha...
They chop their lips on my face @@ Haha.
We were laughing over.....forgotten. This is so natural!
Dining at Amigo! That kid's looking menu @@ He flipped front and back. I ask him which ice-cream you want boy? (two-scoop or banana boat) and he pointed me the banana boat (three scoop+2 bananas+egg rolls)!!! Pandai you.
Me!!!!! Hhhahaha crazy.
My younger sister & brother! Sorry don't look alike. Neither 4 of us X.X
I wanted to take a photo of my little cute cousin and you know what he did?
He kept waving hands and making noise as a sign not to capture him! Seeeeee!!! ↓↓↓↓↓
Then, another group people we used to crazy before course torn us apart but still quite good now though different courses!!! They JIO me out few days after my day over. We went Sushi King @@ OK I'm still very regret and guilty for wasting little bit of foods because I don't waste foods all this while!! I was too full to finish the set meal I ordered and honestly frankly the price just worth the quantity & quality presented I swear! Very guilty lar I thought about those Africa children who suffer from starvation when I couldn't finish it. I forced myself to eat the portion left but sadly I just managed to minimize it to 10% =( Next time bring dear there, can feed him fat fat hhahahha wait I kaya first XD WAIT I rich because now near to CNY so cannot ^^
*Don't want to wait my friend to send me the photos liao because I requested few days ago. So just the photos from my handphone!!!
Bravo bright place is a nice place to self capturing hhhahaha seeeee weakness unseen ;P I seldom self photo-ing already eh nowadays. I simply add effects inside and eventually I find the 1960's effect is quite nice!!! ↑↑↑↑↑
My best friend!
Another round will be next week! Outing, not Sushi King. Okkkk end here. I lazy liao hhhahaa... GOodnights! :D
About my birthday thingy, postpone ok? Hhahha lazy le plenty of photos. I have replacement class at night LAH today so not intending to stay up late just to update about it. *Because I need at least 1 hour to compose a post (excluding picking photos)* and yeah I'd promised my love to adjust back my sleeping time.
I found a good article at MSN page and I think some of you might have interest on it. This is just maybe a guidance k don't take it MAX serious and constantly think about and eventually raise an issue that would end up *pianggggggg* with love. Ok I'm over let's don't beat about the bush.
The saying 'love is blind' is often used to describe anything associated with love. Let's be honest, love does make you blind, but only towards what is happening in the relationship. And when this happens, you will start to make excuses for any bad behavior because you think you are in love with him, and as long as he is happy, you are too. Happiness as defined generally is a state of mind or feeling characterized by contentment, love, satisfaction, pleasure or joy. And when you lack any one of these feelings, you, my friend, may not be as happy as you think you are.
So here are 10 signs he's just not right for you.
He gets annoyed whenever you are emotional
This is a situation where he would either get really annoyed or pay no attention to you when you're being emotional, at a vulnerable state or just being plain sensitive towards him. It's even worse when you're actually telling him that he's hurting you in some way and he looks at you as if you are the world's most annoying thing he has ever seen or as if you're speaking in a language he can't understand.
He makes you feel as if everything is your fault and puts you down constantly
He blames you for anything and everything that goes wrong. He blames you if his clothes are not ironed, when the car ran out of fuel, because he's unemployed and the list goes on. Technically, he's blaming you for everything that went wrong even if it's something that is totally out of your circle of control. If that's not bad enough, he puts you down for just being who you are, when in fact he is supposed to love you for who you really are. He thinks that by putting you down he could change you from who you are to what he wants you to be, and if that is the case, then he really doesn't deserve you and is definitely not the one.
He hits you
Whether it's a slap on the face or a shove towards the wall, it is still physical abuse. Physical abuse does not have to leave visible bruises, as long as he hurts you physically in any way, it amounts to physical abuse.
He cheats on you
Remember the phrase 'once a cheater, always a cheater'? Well there's no true or false to that saying because everyone deserves a second chance but shouldn't that make you question his commitment to the relationship?
It's just sex
When all there is to the relationship is sexual intercourse, and the only intimacy that exists between you is in the bedroom. Sexual connection is not wrong, but if that is the only common ground he shares with you then what is there to the relationship?
He controls you
It's no harm if he knows where you are, what are you doing or who you're with, but if he restricts you just cause he wants to without a reason, then he is controlling you. A relationship should be based on trust, thus if he's controlling you, the relationship wouldn't work because he's stopping you from living your life.
Your friends don't like him and vice versa
Your friends would be people who know you well, which means that they might pick up signs which you may miss. Everyone has their own view of things, but not all of them will suit you, but the least you should do is think about it. While doing this it is very important to be honest with yourself.
He's a cry baby
Venting once in a while after a bad day is fine, but if he whines and complains about anything and everything all the time and is always being negative about things around him then it's bad for you. When you are constantly with a negative person, you would become as negative as he is and it will affect you personally.
He's selfish and inconsiderate
He doesn't care about your needs, and it's only about him all the time. For example, after a long day of work you see him and all he does is talk about his day without even considering to ask you how was yours, if you've eaten or what do you want to do. Communication in a relationship is often underrated when it is actually the most important thing.
There's no give and take
A relationship involves two people, it needs input of both the people involved - just as how you need two hands to clap. It's a give and take situation, if your guy is having problems then you should be his pillar of support and vice versa. But if only one person has to be the pillar of support throughout the relationship then that person will eventually be drained and exhausted and that pillar would just tumble down.
So those are the 10 signs that he's not right for you. There is no one out there who can really tell you whether or not someone is right for you; you're the one who really knows what's going on in your relationship. As long as you are happy then he may be the one for you, just remember: you would want someone who you can grow with and not someone who brings you down, someone who loves you for who you really are and not someone you'd have to rearrange your life for to suit his.
Errr 10 signs that he's just not right for you... I often see people writing about guy, what about girl? Where is 10 signs that she's just not right for you?
It was the ground breaking ceremony of Malaysian Academy of HAN Studies few days back. There were roughly 3K over people attended and I think their purposes of going are only to see Professor Chin Kung 净空法师. ME!!!!! as well..... You know who is him? Show you my idol !! Ha..
Cute or not? CUTE le!! Especially when he clapped hands on the stage that day!! :D The ven master you often see on youtube is him yea! ^ ^
For you maybe not cute LARH. My interest is definitely not our PM or KM Malacca. And HOR I don't like the way PM sitting and behaving on the stage. It is like not respecting enough ZZZ.
Waiting the arrival of guest!
Everyone can get two big bags of these. Foods, books & a vacuum bottle. What a surprise for me because I never expect we could have the souvenir.
Professor Chin Kung was giving speech ah SHOUTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sampat no larh of course cannot. I could only be able to capture him from the screen because teacher was standing very far away.
Honorable chairman of Malaysian Academy of Han Studies, Professor Chin Kung wrote 「Han」calligraphy himself.
Giving to PM for stamping. Very cute le professor! Hhhaha~.. Keep smiling ^ ^ I remembered PM mentioned this while giving speech:"Professor Chin Kung told me this before. He says that one must develop certain values in the leadership. Among them are sincerity, respect and humanity. This can help me in my leadership on Malaysia." Ohai PM, I hope you will really work out on what you spoke that day. Don't let us disappoint.
Start up the building scale of Academy of Han Studies
I can see Professor Chin Kung real life, listening him instructed (开示) live, this is indeed a very good birthday present to me. Thanks to Durian Tan. This is the first time I saw him with my naked eyes, and also last time I guess because our respectful professor will go parinirvana (圆寂) next year. For a normal person it simply means pass away. I am very sad for that, this is seriously a big loss for the Buddhist community! =(
The evening view was so beautiful that day. Is it because of the coming of Professor? Hahh :D
The angry bird cake presented by MMU Buddhist Society. Kamxia alot!! I am very happy frankly speaking as this is the 1st time I receive a gift from an association. We were not be able to cut this cake on the day they gave it to me because we needed to rush for PLKN class sharing. So, cut it myself the next day ;）
With this xiao gua~ OMG loving doesn't he? ^ ^ He likes birthday song and birthday cake very much!! Cannot wait to cut cake yoh him hhaha pinch pinch & kiss your chubby cheek baby muaxX!!
Few days back, I went to Alor Gajah PLKN to have sharing class with the trainees. There are only 45 chinese this batch if I'm not wrong. As this is the 3rd batch, so it is hard for us to control. More than half of the students I can say are having high resistance over our coming. Since they didn't want to have class and their voices were so much louder than ours, so we changed it to music sharing instead! However, dharmma instructor did give a little dharmma talk somehow so that he can explain to superior.
Students didn't give cooperation at first and they just simply answered whenever we asked them question. "Do you guys have any dharmma class previously?" "Yes we have~ Anyway, we don't know how far away have we slept when the lecturers started their first sentences and most of them got mad!" -_____-*POMP!!!!! +.+
They were so energetic! Omg we were the one who felt tired but not them after having fun the whole night. The good thing is, they started to accept us, centralized, mixed and had fun with us!
歌神！of the camp~
I saw few students with tattoos all over their bodies omg very horrible! For me. That gang just sat at a side not joining us during a dancing session. I went to ask them:"Don't you guys want to dance together?". They answered me shyly and with good manner instead of being like a bad person!
They kept asking us when will we go again? We told them that was the last and the only time (for that batch). We had to leave the camp around 10pm actually but they kept pleading us not to leave so early, asking us to stay a more while until 11pm or 12am also never mind! Ouh guys you are so warm-hearted but we really can't > < They insisted to sing a mandarin song named "散场的拥抱" though we didn't have the guitar composition. I know, they just wanted to sing for us actually. I can see that the students were touched and heavy hearted at the last minute but they acted like nothing! OMG youuuuuuuuu, betul² keh².
Before leaving, we requested them to pray quietly and they did!
There was a funny guy who told my BS president:"Next time can you guys don't ask those old people come to give talk mah?" Hhaahhaha. They even asked where do we come from and said that they want to find us after coming out from camp. You know! Some of them ajak us go Movida =.= Whots Movida haha > < The students aren't really bad actually, some even have talents and fast thinkings. Just that, they get friend & environment influence that's why! A person will be impressed somehow and you see, we did it! Those bad students were touched by us and I'm really happy for that!!
I know they are very tired everyday they need to have a lot of physical exercises perhaps competitions and lecture classes. Hence, they were seriously happy during the music sharing class because that was the only chance they can relax and have fun. Morever, that moment is when we can easily get close with them! What they need are our encouragement as well as comfort, of course, we still need to give them a true thinking and self-cultivation. If they can have this kind of people around them, I believe they will turn over a new leaf someday.
Hope that they will still remember this day after leaving PLKN.
Not much activities anyway. Basically just gathering and farewell. My friends all went to have fun, they run over few places this holiday. I guess the following week you can reach me at my home before new semester starts. Ah. Why? Sad.
A gathering with former good classmates and then a farewell for good good big BS sister
Too many books for me to read until I scare so don't get me any before I finish all this > <