Things Dave Said | 他說

More Anniversary Post :

1st  《It Will Go On and On  |  延續》... View More
2nd《Another Mark of Us  |  另一份記號》... View More
3rd 《Do I Like You?  |  我喜欢你吗？》... View More
4th 《The Days with Dave  |  與戴夫的日子》... View More
5th 《Still, As Always  |  始終如一》... View More
6th 《Me Before You, Me After You  |  遇見妳之前，遇見妳之後》... View More

As time goes, we tend to get busier making a living and forget the interest we once have but again, you never fail to be the only reason for keeping my blog alive. Life humbles us so deeply as we age, but on this day of the year I just want to shout at the top of my lungs that you are the love of my life.

Through pictures, we look back and see where we’ve been and what we have done. In a year's time, there have been many ups and downs, things have changed drastically in my life especially after he attended a leadership coach program "Understand and Realizing the New Possibilities in Oneself" few months back. Yes, we have changed over the years, but the sparkle in your eyes is as bright as ever. The loyalty and trust that you give me is an anchor that protects and holds our relationship steady.

I was talking to a friend earlier and our conversation made me realize how much joy you bring into my life, and how much you mean to me :

Thing Dave Said #1
Before being as a Christian, my friend convinced me the confidence they have in approaching God is that if they ask anything according to His will, He hears them, and especially the first prayer. "You will receive, if you have faith". So my first prayer to God is that "If you are real, please give me a girlfriend". After a month or two, I met you. You came into my life so sudden, He answered my prayer. I don't believe in coincidence, and you know I don't take initiative to be friend with girls. He gave me you, and that made me instant believe in Christ.

Thing Dave Said #2
Every religion teaches good things, and what we practice now are for the life after death. Eternal life must be living forever in heaven instead of hell. Believing in Christ is the gift of eternal life, but the Lord Jesus Christ did not die for nothing. Repenting of our sins and believing in the Lord Jesus Christ is the fastest way that we can make it into heaven. I want us to be together in heaven, because I want you to be with me even after we die. Although I hope someday you could be a Christian, but you have your freedom to opt any way that you prefer, and I will love you still.

Thing Dave Said #3
Life is not what we get, but who we become and what we contribute. You're the kind of wonderful partner who makes every aspect of my life better: from teaching me the importance to be punctual, helping me to quit the bad habit of biting nails, to becoming a person who can help in doing chores. The reason of your existence is to give me an opportunity to love you to the fullest. Every moment we’ve spent together so far has been awesome, but I promise you that the best is yet to come.

Thing Dave Said #4
No relationship is ever perfect and I know I’m far from perfect, please forgive me for not being able to accompany you much for the past years but from now on, as long as you need my companion, I'm willing to reschedule my time just for you. Thank you for showing me that love is something you do; something not just to be said, but also to be shown. My purpose in this world is to gather all your love and give you so much more in return. Our love is impossible to break up, deep in my heart I truly know you're the one I love and can't let go.

Thing Dave Said #5
We have shared many wonderful times in the past, honestly I've never imagined the day we will be apart. It isn’t easy being so in love with you and not being able to see you often. Sometimes, the extra distance makes many things unachievable and complicated. If there's this day when your company would like to assign you to work at capital and requires your instant feedback, remember, I will follow you. Do not worry for I can further develop my business there as long as I am with you.

Love isn’t always communicated in a way that the recipient responds best to as we rarely share the same love language. Dave, for example, he shows how much he loves me through countless act of service; For me, my love language includes love of affirmation. I feel safest when I hear how he thinks and feels about me, as simple as the words “I love you” warm my heart. Conversely and of course, blames or even a angry tone will deeply injure me too as I take every of his words seriously.

Have I told you how charming you are as a leader? Well, baby you are.

My life’s biggest security is not just in loving you, but in knowing that you will always be there to love me back no matter what. I love how you take care of me and how you keep working to be a better man. In all the times that I feel sad and insecure, whenever I need support and protection, you are always there. Thanks for being an incredibly honest and loyal man. It means the world to me.

I feel so proud of having you as my partner. Happy 7th Anniversary, my dear.
Loved you then, love you still. Always have, always will.