SOMETHING BAD MIGHT BE A BLESSING IN DISGUISE

I guess many of you had watched this before? 

What I want to emphasis through this video is that, please be thankful.

Yea you look correctly, it is THANKFUL.

So why complain so much? By what you are having,

you are actually considered the lucky one, so do I.

Try not to think negatively. Bear in mind,

《something bad might be a blessing in disguise》

《塞翁失马，焉知非福》

Somehow I would like to thank someone, someone who hurt me deeply. thank you for giving me so much experiences. Because of you, I am changing to a better one with the people around me by my side =D Else, you won't get to see the current me. Don't worry, i ain't blame you :) yes, i am so proud of myself! ^^

There are really much unfair must be accepted in life. Life itself, has many unavoidable circumstances. One couldn't solve a problem by escaping. Instead, carry the responsibility with the wisdom you have. This is what happiness you can have sometimes. Lay down might not be a bad thing. In short, accept the truth, face the truth, settle the truth and finally, lay it down.

Accept : Many people feel hard to accept accidental and disappointed result after a problem has occurred. Don't you think before that life is actually fluctuates? Success and failure are just the ordinary matters. We are impossible to be in favorable circumstances forever. Therefore, accept the adverse circumstances bravely is a kind of wisdom.

Face : Face telling itself that the occurrence of everything has its certain reason. We don't need to look for the reason and there's not enough time for us to do so. We just have to face it and improve it, this is the most direct way of solving. when a problem appears, escape couldn't prevent it from occurring. Instead, face it confidently and calmly, take it as a disposal of crisis training or treat it as a power to boost us to growth. One should not be afraid to bear the consequences of making a mistake but to accumulate the experiences in life diligently.

Settle : For any kind of bad situation, improve it immediately if can. If couldn't, one doesn't need to be disappointed and he should try harder continuously. It is because everyone will still have the chance of being successful sooner or later.

Lay down : Past matter already passed. Reality has restarted since in the beginning right after the problem occurred. So what for if you still couldn't let it go?

One cannot let go own self doesn't have the wisdom while one cannot let go other doesn't have the mercy. One should instead learn to let go own self as well as others or in other word, forgive. The road of the life is still very long and wide, so remember, something bad might be a blessing in disguise.

thank you, CH =) sincerely. I do learn a lot of things from you.

p/s : please do not misunderstand. I am not having any problem in letting go and nothing requires me to lay down currently also by the way.