10 Recurring Dreams & What They Mean

Since the previous post talks about sleeping, let me share something related to sleeping now then — Dream.

This is not plagiarize or what since it is there to share with public. Anyway, I would eventually talk straight to the main points because the actual article is very long and I think nobody will actually go to look at it if I just simply add the link here.

Alright should we start now? ^^

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Do you ever have really, really weird dreams? Events and emotions in your waking life trigger your dreams. If you repeatedly have the same dream, your subconscious is trying to send you a message.

In fact, most of the recurring dreams on this list might be more accurately described as nightmares. Perhaps this is because scary dreams are more memorable.

1. Chased

If you dream you are being chased – you are probably trying to get away from something.

You are running away from or trying to hide from something you need to face. It could be a feeling you are avoiding, a conflict you don’t want to handle or a difficult memory you would rather forget.

2. Falling

Falling is definitely a sign that you are out of control. These dreams signify a loss of control as well as “a sudden lack of foundation in your life, such as a situation where ‘the rug is pulled out’ from under you”.

3. Lost or Unprepared

If you are dreaming about being lost or unprepared, you probably feel unprepared or lost in your real life. If you can’t get your locker open, can’t find your classroom or your house; or, you’re late for something (a test, a train, a meeting) then you find yourself in this category.

School, career, even a new home – these settings all represent change.

To dream that you are late for something — You are fear of change and your anxiety about seizing an opportunity. You may feel unready or unworthy in your current circumstances. You may also be conflicted over decisions about your future.

Dreams about being at school often — You are feeling insecure about your social status, your abilities or your performance in a situation.

Dreams about locks — You are frustrated and need to express your feelings about a situation in real life.

Dream that takes place in school may also be a metaphor for the lessons you are learning in your life.

Dream of a school locker — Hidden feelings and thirst for knowledge.

4. Public Exposure

If you have recurring dreams that you are naked in public, you are afraid you will be exposed. Is there something you are hiding? When you are naked in a dream, you are revealing the real you.

5. How's Your Dental Plan?

You feel something hard rolling around in your mouth and spit it out, only to discover it is one of your own teeth. Or, you look in the mirror and your teeth are all missing. Have you had this dream?

This dream would be that you are feeling that things are decaying or falling apart in your life. Dreams about losing teeth are common and suggest the dreamer feels powerless or out of control in a real life situation.

There are 2 additional interpretations :

i. You are having difficulties related to self esteem and speaking your mind.

ii. It could be time to see a dentist.

6. Going Nowhere

Dream that you are moving in slow motion — You are currently facing hardships and obstacles.

Dreams of paralysis — You are feeling unable to make progress of your own accord in your life, or in a particular situation or you’re feeling held back. Perhaps even feeling self-sabotaged.

7. Flying

Dreams about flying — “Freedom of expression”, “doing the impossible”, and “creativity”.

But what if your superhero dreams go south? See dream no.2 (Falling).

8. Wet Dreams

If you regularly dream that you are drowning, large waves wash over you, or floodwaters rise over you – You might be feeling a bit overwhelmed by something in your life.

Drowning indicates overwhelming circumstances in real life, feelings of helplessness or hopelessness, or something feeling out of control.

One huge wave could represent a challenge in your life.

A flood might represent feeling like you are ‘over your head’ or things are out of control somehow in your life.

9. Excuse me, where's the washroom?

Have you had a dream that something like you search for a bathroom but when you get there, the toilets are either broken or missing completely? Or you wait in line for a long time, but when it’s your turn, the stall doors are all gone?

To dream that you are in a public restroom with no stalls — You're frustrated about getting enough privacy.

10. Trapped

What about you dream that you are locked in a room, trapped in a mine, or buried alive in a box? Did you? If so, then there is some aspect of your waking life that makes you feel trapped or claustrophobic. Did you make the wrong career choice? Is there a mountain of debt on top of you, stifling the lifestyle that you thought you would have?

To dream you are caged — You may feel like you cannot change your situation and are feeling trapped by it.

This type of dream indicates “you may feel like you are not being allowed to live up to your full potential because somebody is holding you back”.

Things You Didn't Know About Sleep

1. What goes on when you sleep :

     Your brain recharges --> Your cells repair themselves --> Your body releases important hormones

2. You need different amounts of sleep depending on your age :

     Babies --> 16 hours

     3~12 --> 10 hours

     13~18 --> 10 hours

     19~55 --> 8 hours

     Over 65 --> 6 hours

3. Men have dreams about other men 70% of the time. But women dream about women and men equally.

4. We can only dream about faces we have already seen, whether we actively remember them or not.

5. Parasomnia is a type of sleep disorder that makes you do unnatural movements, despite being sleep.

    Crimes committed on parasomnia include :

            Sleep driving, Writing bad checks, Murder, Child molesting, Rape.

6. 12% of people dream only in black and white. This number use to be higher but since the advent of color television, more people dream in color than before.

7. Dreaming is normal. People who do not dream generally have personality disorders.

8. Sleep positions may determine your personality. The most common positions :

    a. Fetal (41%) - People are gruff initially, but have warm and open hearts.

    b. Log (15%) - Social butterflies.

    c. The Yearner (13%) - Perceived as open, but truly suspicious.

    d. Soldier (8%) - Reserved.

    e. Freefall (7%) - Fun and fantastic at parties.

    f. Starfish (5%) - Excellent listeners.

9. 1 in 4 married couples sleep in separate beds.

10. British soldiers were the first to develop a method in staying up 36 hours without sleep. When fatigued, they put on special visors that emulated the brightness of a sunrise and it woke them up.

11. Longest sleeping mammals :

           22 hours a day - Koalas

           19.9 hours a day - Brown bat

           18 hours a day - Pangolins

      Shortest sleeping mammals :

           1.9 hours a day (in 5~10 minute sessions) - Giraffes

           3.09 hours a day - Roe deer

           3.1 hours a day - Asiantic elephant

12. When dolphins sleep, only half of their brain shuts down. The other half stays awake to help with breathing cycles.

13. You'll die from sleep deprivation before food deprevation. It takes 2 weeks to starve, but 10 days without sleep can kill you.

14. Blind people can still see images in dreams. Those born blind experience dreams involving emotion, sound, smell, and touch instead of sight.

15. Within 5 minutes of waking up, 50% of your dream is forgotten. Within 10 minutes, 90% is gone.

16. 1 out of 50 teenagers still wet their beds.

The Chronicles of Narnia 纳尼亚传奇

I simply no cure anymore. Later exam now still can sit here calmly and blogging -.- Ohh, maybe because I see you already and that makes me feel all right! You are my medicine hoho ^^

Ish! I've planned what am I going to do in my coming midterm break lar! Basically no much heart to concentrate in class currently. Cancel all class!!!, so that I can have the initiative to do my pending task before the thing I really want to do. Can't wait to present it!!!!!!!!!!!

Okay stop crapping and straight to my point, got to off for revision already.

I want to watch these two movies especially Narnia!!!!!!!!! Another one is Rapunzel. Who wants to go with me? Dear? Haha..

For what I know, Narnia itself has 7 series. Now movie version only out to Narnia 3 (╯﹏╰） How long more am I going to wait until all the series out? Let's assume 1 series every 2 years. So hmm.. That means I can only finish watching all of them when I reach 27 years old O.O!!

纳尼亚传奇 1 - 狮子、女巫和魔衣柜

The Chronicles of Narnia 1 - The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe

纳尼亚传奇 2 - 凯斯宾王子

The Chronicles of Narnia 2 - Prince Caspian

纳尼亚传奇 3 - 黎明踏浪号

The Chronicles of Narnia 3 - The Voyage of the Dawn Treader

纳尼亚传奇4 - 银椅

The Chronicles of Narnia 4 - The Silver Chair

纳尼亚传奇5 - 能言马与男孩

The Chronicles of Narnia 5 - The Horse and His Boy

纳尼亚传奇6 - 魔法师的外甥

The Chronicles of Narnia 6 - The Magicians Nephew

纳尼亚传奇7 - 最后一战

The Chronicles of Narnia 7 - The Last Battle

For your information, all these are the book version. It has Chinese as well as English. Proud to say that I have all the series LOL!!!!! Ahha but they are in Chinese one not English. I don't know where to get all these now already, I have these books since 4 or 5 years ago. I still have 2 series haven't been read o(>﹏<)o Not free lar ahha.. Wow excuse? So far I want to watch 6th series ;D !!

Want to know more what are the stories about? Look here for the outline :

纳尼亚传奇 1 - 狮子、女巫和魔衣柜

在老教授的房子里有许多间屋子，屋子里有许多扇门，但是只有一扇通向另一个世界…纳尼亚那里流传着一个预言：两个亚当的儿子和两个夏娃的女儿将会现身，击败邪恶的白女巫，结束永恒的寒冬。狮王阿斯兰说：纳尼亚的未来系于他们的勇气。在这里，一种命运即将应验，一段传奇拉开序幕。

The Chronicles of Narnia 1 - The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe

"It's a magic wardrobe. There's a wood inside it, and it's snowing! Come and see," begged Lucy. Lucy has stumbled upon a marvellous land of fauns and centaurs, nymphs and talking animals. But soon she discovers that it is ruled by the cruel White Witch, and can only be freed by Aslan, the great Lion and four children This is the second adventure in the exciting Chronicles of Narnia.

纳尼亚传奇 2 - 凯斯宾王子

《纳尼亚传奇：凯斯宾王子》的故事发生在彼得等四兄妹回到自己的世界一年后。他们四人在假期回校时坐在火车站的长椅上等车，忽然感到有股特殊的力量将他们拉进纳尼亚。他们得知，自从他们离开纳尼亚后已经过去了几百年。纳尼亚原国王的弟弟弥若兹篡夺了王位，杀害兄长。在他的残暴统治下，所有会说话的动物和精灵们都隐藏起来了。然而老国王的儿子凯斯宾王子渴望解放纳尼亚，他逃离王宫，在森林里找到了纳尼亚的老居民，并得到他们的支持。正邪双方展开激战。王子在寡不敌众的时候吹响了苏珊的魔法号角，将彼得四兄妹唤回这个世界帮助他们。他们领导纳尼亚的动物和精灵们战胜了邪恶的国王，凯斯宾王子继承了王位，纳尼亚又恢复了以往的生机勃勃。彼得四兄妹又重返自己的世界。

The Chronicles of Narnia 2 - Prince Caspian

The Chronicles of Narnia return to the silver screen in May 2008 with the eagerly awaited Prince Caspian! Peter, Susan, Edmund and Lucy return to Narnia once more, this time to help rescue the rightful heir to the throne from his evil Uncle Miraz. This paperback edition is brought to life with cover illustrations from Cliff Nielsen.

纳尼亚传奇 3 - 黎明踏浪号

小孩子看到的是奇怪又生动的故事；大人们看到的是从冒险经历中的传奇和神话的秘密……一个来自世界之初，充满神奇魔法的国度，充满了时会起而舞蹈的惊奇生物、能言兽和能言树。就在这个时刻，有几個小孩已经打開了前往魔法国度的门…… 暑假里，爱德蒙和露西住在哈罗德舅舅家，和表兄尤斯塔斯住在一起。尤斯塔斯是个令人讨厌的家伙。有一天，墙上的一幅画有帆船的油画忽然将他们拉进了画中，他们在船上遇到了凯斯宾国王，他正出航寻找被叔叔驱逐的骑士们。航行的另一个目的是希望找到雄狮阿斯兰的王国。一路上他们经过了各种神奇的岛屿，如孤独岛、声音岛、黑暗岛等等，历尽种种艰险。在这历险过程中，尤斯塔斯从一个贪婪自私、惹人厌的坏孩子转变成一个诚实勇敢的孩子。他们最后航行到世界尽头的外边，找到阿斯兰的国土，但除了老鼠雷佩契普留在阿斯兰王国外，其他人都只能回到拉曼杜岛。他们解除了魔法，唤醒了三位沉睡着的爵爷，最后又都回到纳尼亚。爱德蒙、露西也回到剑桥舅妈家。

The Chronicles of Narnia 3 - The Voyage of the Dawn Treader

Aslan does not always choose the most obvious people to enter Narnia, and C.S. Lewis begins The Voyage of the Dawn Treader by telling us, "There was a boy called Eustace Clarence Scrubb, and he almost deserved it." Not surprisingly, Eustace does not like his cousins, Lucy and Edmund, and when they are sent to stay with him one summer, Eustace can only think how he can make their stay miserable. But this is before the three children see the picture in Lucy's room. Edmund and Lucy recognize it at once as a Narnian ship.

纳尼亚传奇 4 - 银椅

20世纪30年代，牛津大学附近一家不起眼的小酒馆里，常有两位老教授聚会聊天，分享对方的种种古怪想法，并相约各写一部奇幻史诗。很多年后，这家酒馆成为无数读者心中的圣地，因为那里孕育了两部关于信仰与想象的伟大著作：《纳尼亚传奇》和《魔戒》。20世纪90年代末以来，一位名叫J.K.罗琳的单身母亲几乎每年都要为女儿写一本关于“哈利•波特”的新书，当被问到这个系列最终会是几本的时候，罗琳的回答是七本。因为她母亲曾让她读过一个关于“纳尼亚”的故事，那套书就是七本：《狮子、女巫和魔衣柜》《凯斯宾王子》《黎明踏浪号》《银椅》《能言马与男孩》《魔法师的外甥》《最后一战》。

The Chronicles of Narnia 4 - The Silver Chair

One of the most puzzling and interesting things in The Chronicles of Narnia is the way Time works. A whole lifetime in Narnia can last no longer than a minute of our time. And while you are in our world, there is no telling how much time will have passed in Narnia when you go back there.

纳尼亚传奇5 - 能言马与男孩

《纳尼亚传奇：能言马与男孩》以某种惊人的友情带你向北飞奔到纳尼亚，奔向自由——纳尼亚……那里马会说话，四个不可能在一起的同伴聚首齐心拯救王国。

The Chronicles of Narnia 5 - The Horse and His Boy

The Horse and His Boy takes place even before the adventures in The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe have ended. It begins in Calormen, a land far to the south of Narnia, beyond Archenland, where animals cannot talk and humans can still be treated as slaves.

纳尼亚传奇6 - 魔法师的外甥

故事讲述的是，通往隔壁房子的秘密走道其实指向一个全新的世界——纳尼亚……那里马会长出翅膀，当能说话的野兽被唤醒……充满魔法的新天地诞生......

The Chronicles of Narnia 6 - The Magicians Nephew

Narnia... where Talking Beasts walk... where a witch awaits... where a new world is about to be born. On a daring quest to save a beloved life, two friends are hurled into another world, where an evil sorceress seeks to enslave them. But then the lion Aslan??s song weaves itself into the fabric of a new land, a land that will become known as Narnia. And in Narnia, all things are possible...

纳尼亚传奇7 - 最后一战

《纳尼亚传奇：最后一战》前往魔法之地纳尼亚的终极旅程，是同邪恶的大决战。纳尼亚，那里最后的国王英勇奋战，当悲伤的道别化作欢歌，冒险重又开始。一只无尾猿无意中拣到一张狮子毛皮，劝诱他的朋友——头脑简单的驴子披上狮皮，假扮阿斯兰，控制纳尼亚的生物。国王蒂莲为了解救纳尼亚的生灵，并揭穿无尾猿的诡计而成为无尾猿和卡乐门人的俘虏。他向阿斯兰呼救，唤来了尤斯塔斯和吉儿。他们救出蒂莲国王,并带领独角兽等忠诚的动物和卡乐门军队、反叛的野兽以及矮人们展开战斗。但此时残酷的异教塔什神已经来到纳尼亚。尤斯塔斯被俘，在寡不敌众的情况下，蒂莲国王躲进马厩，却发现七个国王和女王——彼得、爱德蒙、露西、尤斯塔斯、吉儿和恢复了青春的迪戈里、波莉以国王和女王的身份站在他的面前。雄狮阿斯出现了，“时间”醒来，世界末日的号角已被吹响，黑夜笼罩纳尼亚，纳尼亚终于被毁灭了。阿斯兰带领所有信仰他的生物穿过一道门，来到了他的王国。阿斯兰告诉露茜，他们其实都已经在火车事故中死去。老纳尼亚中一切重要的东西以及可爱的动物，都已经由这扇门进入真正的纳尼亚。过去出现过的人物都在这里。从此，他们在新的纳尼亚过着幸福的生活。

The Chronicles of Narnia 7 - The Last Battle

The Narnia Chronicles, first published in 1950, remain some of the most enduringly popular ever published. The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe, has been translated into 29 languages! The illustrations in this book have been coloured by the original artist, Pauline Baynes. Now published with the original cover, as designed by Pauline Baynes. "To my side, all true Narnians! Would you wait till your new masters have killed you one by one?" A false Aslan is commanding all Narnians to work for the cruel Calormenes and striking terror into every heart. Jill and Eustace find themselves called into Narnia once more, this time to aid King Tirian in the mightiest of all battles... This is the seventh adventure in the exciting Chronicles of Narnia.

There is a map in every series. If you match all of them, you will get a complete form of Narnia World. I still remember I did spend time looking and studying the maps. Anyway, I was in secondary school by that time. I don't think I would spend time understanding those anymore or I might not even bother to glance at them lol.. Nak buat apa yang saya suka pun tak ada masa, apa lagi buku Narnia? Okay once again I MIGHT read back the stories when I am damn free. All these below are part of the maps, just show you guys only lar if some of you are interested (I don't think anyone will interest on it -.-) *Click to enlarge*

Map of Narnia 1 (The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe)

Map of Narnia 2 (Prince Caspian)

Map of Narnia 3 (The Voyage of the Dawn Treader)

Map of Narnia 4 (The Silver Chair)

Map of Narnia 5 (The Horse and His Boy)

Map of all stories, The overall view.

GOOD DEED

wow! my grandma found a purse nearby my house. there is RM450 inside with some important cards, good! buahaha yeay additional allowances this month! ;D

i know what are you thinking right now. yes, NOW but.. do you think we will do that?

拾金不昧…… thinking how long i never use this idiom already.

the owner is a malay girl who works in Dominant Semiconductor Factory. elder than me 3 years old. damn, what a rich girl. so many receipts from famous brand eg. Padini. zZz alright not to talk about this, my parents however, being the good persons decided to return the purse to her.

no contact number inside so what we could do is just searching blindly for her house according to the address stated on her IC. so far la, some more kampung kampung.. no exact address also, i mean no house number, just the street name with village, poscode and state.

we stopped by a stall and asked the residents there. some said here, some said there @.@ for your information, we had asked for more than 5 persons with each at different place! God bless, we managed to find her relatives after searching for an hour ^^

they told us the owner had vacated so we got the contact from them instead. oh my goodness my Malay Language kept hanging when i talked to her father. alamak sudah lama tak cakap Bahasa Melayu! macam ayam dan itik xP i felt like speaking to him all of the sudden (+﹏+)~ never mind, at least i was able to communicate with him though i didn't speak well lol. guess what == her new house is actually located at the area behind my house WA-LAO!!! 远在天边，近在眼前……

finally we found her house and returned the purse to her. lol pity, she cried terribly yesterday. i guess she couldn't sleep well last night. she kept thanking and greeting us. Bersalam. no worry girl, we didn't take any single thing in your wallet :)

i saw how grateful she was! almost cried but she was still smiling at us! ;D

be careful la everyone okie? ;)

what a happy day! 真高兴 ^^ seeeeeeeee... i come from good seeds =D haha~

STAIRS TO HEAVEN

stairs to heaven.. may you go there peacefully though i feel heavy hearted.

thinking of all the times we shared..

sorry that i couldn't oppress myself anymore..

please allow me to cry for you just once.. just once..

foo hui theng.. i miss you so much suddenly tonight.. :'{

why don't you give me a chance to pass u a good news of mine?

i regret for not talking to you although i had the feeling to greet you when i last saw you on msn.. 

i remember what you wrote for me in my biodata but i just don't dare to open your page.

i know you don't want to see me crying but sorry, really very sorry Foo..

the cutie you used to call couldn't hide her feeling and tears anymore.. couldn't..

DEAR ANGELINE

you told me about Britney Spears and introduced me two songs of her. one of them named "Sometimes" is still my most favourite song even until now. it just doesn't change no matter how well how hitz the songs come over.

we sat together talking about where should we go in the future. i told you my decision so did you. we promised each other and switched together.

i was the first and you were the second. you called me leng lui and i turnaround. i saw a pink holic girl waving at me with a smile on the face. we laughed.

dear angel, please pass a note of mine to her.

    still remember this? we shouldn't name you yong tau fu because it is delicate. aren't you supposed to prove us that we are wrong? yong tau fu, how dare you make me cry! you make me have no appetite to eat kay. i believe you were not preparing as well so same went to me this afternoon. i even lied to myself that you and your bf are joking around and testing us how much we care for you. however, dream itself eliminates and calls me to back to reality.

     i do not know what to give. i just don't feel like offering condolences or something like rest in peace. what does that mean? people want to say i couldn't accept the truth or i am cold blooded they may just go on. i don't know why i just don't like to see "RIP" these three words on your pretty wall and i won't make any comment before getting to see you tomorrow. i might not allowed to "meet" with you but i will try if i could have the chance.

    yes, fish is right. the only expression you have in my mind of every of the scene i recall is just the smiling face. i know you always don't want to see us crying so this time isn't exceptional too i believe. i really don't know what to continue but i have many many things to speak actually. if i say i use 3 hours to write these three paragraphs would you trust me?

    i abhor the man though i know i shouldn't. nothing much can be blame, it is fate somehow. dear reminds me of an important thing. APPRECIATE EVERYTHING. you'd given me a big lesson in my life. yong tau fu ™. this is only belongs to you. you're in the arms of the angel, may you find some comfort there.

    i am Qin. Pei Qin the pumpkin. Loves.

what i'd got from others are just "don't be sad". how can i don't be sad? let me ask you, what if the same thing happens on your best friend? would that sentence works on you? you must be joking if you answer yes. anyway, i think i feel better if compare to him and her loves. all in all, THANK YOU Angeline Foo :)

停泊在昨日的码头

好多梦重重叠叠

明天还有云要飞

留着天空陪我追

珍惜曾经拥有珍惜曾经牵过手

珍惜青春梦一场珍惜相聚的时光

珍惜为我流的泪珍惜为你的岁月

八月十五中秋节快乐 HAPPY MID AUTUMN

送上一首久违的歌

hope it brings you back to the childhood time =)

Happy Mooncake Festival  中秋节快乐 

WHAT IS HR?

bomb! please get ready.

After 2 years of selfless service, a man realized that he has not been promoted, no transfer, no salary increase no commendation and that the Company is not doing any thing about it. So he decided to walk up to his HR Manager one morning and after exchanging greetings, he told his HR Manager his observation.The boss looked at him, laughed and asked him to sit down saying;

My friend, you have not worked here for even one day. 

The man was surprised to hear this, but the manager went on to explain.

Manager : How many days are there in a year?
Man : 365 days and some times 366. 

Manager : how many hours make up a day?
Man : 24 hours. 

Manager : How long do you work in a day?
Man : 8am to 4pm. i.e. 8 hours a day.

Manager : So! what fraction of the day do you work in hours? 
Man : (He did some arithmetic and said 8/24 hours i.e. 1/3(one third). 

Manager : That is nice of you! What is one-third of 366 days?
Man : 122 (1/3x366 = 122 in days). 

Manager : Do you come to work on weekends?
Man : No sir. 

Manager : How many days are there in a year that are weekends?
Man : 52 Saturdays and 52 Sundays equals to 104 days. 

Manager : Thanks for that. If you remove 104 days from 122 days, how many days do you now have?
Man : 18 days.

Manager : OK! I do give you 2 weeks sick leave every year. Now remove that 14 days from the 18 days left. How many days do you have remaining?
Man : 4 days. 

Manager : Do you work on New Year day?
Man : No sir!

Manager : Do you come to work on workers day?
Man : No sir!

Manager : So how many days are left?
Man : 2 days sir!

Manager : Do you come to work on the (National holiday )?
Man : No sir!

Manager : So how many days are left?
Man : 1 day sir!

Manager : Do you work on Christmas day?
Man : No sir!

Manager : So how many days are left?
Man : None sir!

Manager : So, what are you claiming?
Man : I have understood, Sir. I did not realise that I was stealing Company money all these days. 

Moral - NEVER GO TO HR FOR HELP!!!

HR = HIGH RISK

SOMETHING BAD MIGHT BE A BLESSING IN DISGUISE

I guess many of you had watched this before? 

What I want to emphasis through this video is that, please be thankful.

Yea you look correctly, it is THANKFUL.

So why complain so much? By what you are having,

you are actually considered the lucky one, so do I.

Try not to think negatively. Bear in mind,

《something bad might be a blessing in disguise》

《塞翁失马，焉知非福》

Somehow I would like to thank someone, someone who hurt me deeply. thank you for giving me so much experiences. Because of you, I am changing to a better one with the people around me by my side =D Else, you won't get to see the current me. Don't worry, i ain't blame you :) yes, i am so proud of myself! ^^

There are really much unfair must be accepted in life. Life itself, has many unavoidable circumstances. One couldn't solve a problem by escaping. Instead, carry the responsibility with the wisdom you have. This is what happiness you can have sometimes. Lay down might not be a bad thing. In short, accept the truth, face the truth, settle the truth and finally, lay it down.

Accept : Many people feel hard to accept accidental and disappointed result after a problem has occurred. Don't you think before that life is actually fluctuates? Success and failure are just the ordinary matters. We are impossible to be in favorable circumstances forever. Therefore, accept the adverse circumstances bravely is a kind of wisdom.

Face : Face telling itself that the occurrence of everything has its certain reason. We don't need to look for the reason and there's not enough time for us to do so. We just have to face it and improve it, this is the most direct way of solving. when a problem appears, escape couldn't prevent it from occurring. Instead, face it confidently and calmly, take it as a disposal of crisis training or treat it as a power to boost us to growth. One should not be afraid to bear the consequences of making a mistake but to accumulate the experiences in life diligently.

Settle : For any kind of bad situation, improve it immediately if can. If couldn't, one doesn't need to be disappointed and he should try harder continuously. It is because everyone will still have the chance of being successful sooner or later.

Lay down : Past matter already passed. Reality has restarted since in the beginning right after the problem occurred. So what for if you still couldn't let it go?

One cannot let go own self doesn't have the wisdom while one cannot let go other doesn't have the mercy. One should instead learn to let go own self as well as others or in other word, forgive. The road of the life is still very long and wide, so remember, something bad might be a blessing in disguise.

thank you, CH =) sincerely. I do learn a lot of things from you.

p/s : please do not misunderstand. I am not having any problem in letting go and nothing requires me to lay down currently also by the way.

WELCOME TO THIS WORLD MY DEAR!

Happy birthday to my new cousin!! welcome to this world ^^

hehe everyone is so "kan cheong" about him and his mummy.

see, he opened his eyes know when i wanted to snap a photo of him =)

must stay healthy ya.. next time bigger bit jie jie brings you to go to play =3

i ❤ you ^^