Friday, April 22, 2011

Thing Isn't Like What You Think..



『Warning : This is a long post』




Forgive me for the spamming of philosophism ;D Haha.

Anyway, besides the biggest influence from dear, I guess another determinant of my changes is none other than the philosophy books. Much of thankfulness to the authors especially my favorite, Doctor He Quan Feng 何权峰医师……




Yeah talking about it, the main purpose I update today is to share a meaningful and important lesson I learn from a book I bought lately. Boring? I don't force you to continue close the window bye bye not sending 不送!So cruel xP

I met with a good friend of mine today and we had 2 hours chat. Haiyo girl mah! xP Some more we didn't meet for quite a long time frankly speaking. So yeap, time to update :) Nice chat we have!




Talk talk talk, kepo! Not gonna tell you what is happening and then………… it leads to an article in the book I read and I glad that she thinks the same :)




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You could never imagine how things will develop. Life is a never-ending process of disclosure, it will bring you a surprise after another. You would never know how thing will change next.

You must have heard something similar to this, for example, people escape from a so-called disaster because of the missed opportunities, people get to create their own careers because they lost the job previously, someone break with you and because of that, you found your true love.

Originally you thought it is a disaster for you but it is actually a blessing in disguise. 塞翁失马,焉知非福。Do you get me? Many people experienced it just after the incident. Don't you experience before? Therefore, when thing goes towards the unexpected direction, the result may surprise you.




The CEO of Apple said this feelingly, if not because of the failing of study, he wouldn't create Apple. He described, encountering his bad day was a severe suffering life he thought. However, when the bad day was overtaken and he thought for the past, he discovered impressively that it was actually the greatest thing he encountered in his life.





Let me bring one more story for you. Yea it is also one of the stories I read from the book. The story is something like this……

There is a man where he has 4 sons. He hopes that all of them could learn not to do conclusion too quickly. Hence, he gave his 4 children a question orderly and asked them to go to see a peach tree respectively.

The eldest son departed in winter, the second son in spring, third son in summer and finally the smallest son in autumn. When they came back, the man asked them to come over and called them to describe the scenery they saw.

The eldest son said that the tree looks dry out soon, there is no any hope can be seen.

The second son said that the tree grows green buds.

The third son said that flowers bloom on the tree and full of fragrance, it looks very beautiful.

However, the smallest son did not agree with them. He said that the tree is covered by fruits, it is full of harvest and hope.

This man, he told his 4 sons :"All of you are correct, it is because four of you went in the different time and what you saw is just one of the season's." He advice them not to judge a people and a thing through a scenery of a season. One couldn't just see the present, but to pull longer the time.





Thing that happens in a particular time can never be the whole story. You thought it is like that but it isn't like the thing you thought actually. Story has reached the end but it doesn't mean it is over, you wouldn't know how thing will form, will change next.

Relax, there is nothing wrong when things are not like what you think. Try to think, if you can see the scenery of your life from the starting point to the end point, will that be interesting anymore? I guess you know the answer.

Good luck! :D


Pregnant?? xD



He starts to learn crawling..






我想,我也该起飞了…… I guess, I should also take off.


5 comments:

Unknown said...

When Hoong Ie know how to crawl, sure he always crawl here and there to kepo~haha!!!

Pei Qin said...

Wah you are so fast! Because of him, 24 hours refreshing my blog ar? xD Hahh.. "yāo pái mǒng" lor that time. Cantonese.

Unknown said...

lol!!~just coincidently I'm updated my blog too so just saw you're updating too~haha!!!~then he is always finding foods~

Pei Qin said...

I see.. Ya eh, he confirm open his mouth regardless what food you put near him. Even far away he will move his mouth also lol..

Unknown said...

吃得是福!~吃得是福!~^^